Why did my like (or message) disappear?

Stir will not send you any “fake” or misleading communications, such as email notifications, Messages, or Likes. We have too much respect for our members to ever compromise their trust.

However, you might sometimes receive a Message from a Stir member, only to see a "Profile Unavailable" error when you try to look at their profile.

Or you might get an email notification about a new Like, only to find that it has disappeared once you sign in.

When something like this happens, it means the member who contacted you either chose to remove their profile from the site or their profile was taken down by our team.