- Once you've matched with someone on Stir, can you start chatting with that person for free.
Different Ways to Message a Match
- You can respond to a message thread in your Inbox by typing in the space at the bottom of the thread.
- You can click on the Message icon on a member's profile page. (This icon is orange, and it looks like a speech bubble.)The Message icon (an orange speech bubble) appears on other parts of the site too. So whenever you see that icon, you can click on it to send a message to that member.
- You can respond to messages from your Likes page.
**There is no way to unsend or recall or retract a Message once it is sent.